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Coming up on this
Wellness Wednesday episode
of Life Today!
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Debra Fileta helps us
maintain Soul Care
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by letting
Jesus's life rhythms
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guide you to peace.
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>> This is why we really
have to take inventory.
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Why am I always
burnt out?
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Why am I always
saying yes
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when I really should
be saying no?
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Why am I always
spread too thin
and overcommitted?
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This isn't just
a personality thing.
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This is something
we really have to get
to the root of.
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TAMMY: Hi, everybody!
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Welcome to Life Today.
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I'm Tammy Trent.
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I'm so glad you're here for
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another day, another episode
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of Wellness Wednesdays.
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They're so good for the soul.
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So come on in.
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Grab a cup of coffee,
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cup of tea,
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whatever you need;
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maybe even a piece of paper
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and a pen because
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you might want to write
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some things down
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on a day like today.
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It's so, so good!
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I want to introduce you
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to our guest host,
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Blynda Lane.
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I'm so glad you're here.
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You're so amazing.
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You have so much insight.
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You actually, the depth,
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your walk with Jesus,
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like, I feel it,
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it exudes.
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And you know scripture
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so good!
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I love it.
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BLYNDA: You're so sweet.
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It has been so fun
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to be here with you.
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I mean, you're just --
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what a gift Tammy is.
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I mean, truly, what a gift!
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Because she is so full
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of energy.
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You're so entertaining.
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But you are so --
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like you see through people.
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You see them.
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You actually really see them
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and I love that so much.
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It's been really fun
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to co-host with you.
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TAMMY: Thank you!
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Will you say this tomorrow?
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BLYNDA: Yeah, absolutely.
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But also, I want to say
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thank you to James and Betty.
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I've loved them
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for so many years;
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have gone to church with them.
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In fact, funny story,
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just a quick little story.
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James was the first person,
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one of the first people
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to ever speak into my life,
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that there was a gifting on me
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to be in television.
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TAMMY: And now you're here!
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BLYNDA: Decades --
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it was 20 years ago.
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I'm really, really grateful.
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Full circle movement.
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TAMMY: Full circle!
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Speaking of full circle,
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this has nothing to do with
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full circle where I'm going.
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BLYNDA: But that's okay
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because most of the show
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we know where we're going.
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TAMMY: Yes!
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But I do want to say,
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I think there are so many –-
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today is important because
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there are so many people
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that deal with --
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let's just talk about
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a couple of things,
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major burnout,
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totally burned out.
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They are exhausted.
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Chronic fatigue.
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I don't know where
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you're at in your life,
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but I feel exhausted
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right at this exact moment.
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I'm here. I'm committed.
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I'm showing up.
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I'm fighting through it,
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but do we always have
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to fight through it?
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Is there a time when we hit
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a wall, and just like,
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is it dangerous to wait
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to that point?
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Do we have to find the signs
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and see them right now?
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BLYNDA: It's such
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a real question, especially
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for women, I feel like.
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There are a lot of changes
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hormonally we go through.
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I think it's such a real thing
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to talk about the burnout
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and to talk about how
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nothing feels normal
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or the same anymore.
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At a certain point,
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it's like, who am I?
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I don't feel the same way.
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TAMMY: Yeah, I totally agree.
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That's why today is going
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to be a great day for you.
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Are you ready?
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We're going to jump right in.
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I'm going to introduce you to
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-- she's been here a few times
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and you have loved her
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just as we love her,
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Debra Fileta.
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Did I get your name right?
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DEBRA: You did!
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TAMMY: I'm glad you're here.
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DEBRA: It's so good
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to be here.
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TAMMY: A bestselling author,
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speaker, you've got a
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new book out, Soul Care,
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which is so good.
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Thank you for this gift.
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Let's jump on in.
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Can we start at the top,
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of burnout?
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Why are so many people
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struggling with so much
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burnout right now?
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DEBRA: It's true.
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I think many people would say
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that they're feeling empty.
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And I think many Christians
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would say that
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they're feeling empty.
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When you look at Scripture,
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the Bible calls us
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to be filled.
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Scripture talks about
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knowing God's love so deeply
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so that we may be filled.
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When the Holy Spirit
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came upon the disciples
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at Pentecost, they were
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filled with the spirit.
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John 10:10 tells us that
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Jesus came to give us life
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in all of its fullness.
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So why is it that so many
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of us are feeling empty?
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I really believe that
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it's God's will for us
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to be filled, but many of us
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haven't learned
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what that looks like.
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Mot only that, many of us
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have been taught theology
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that almost enables us
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to stay empty rather than
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take a look at where we are,
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how we're doing,
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and how filled
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we feel standing alone.
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BLYNDA: You're probably
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sitting in rooms of people
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all the time, and they're
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bringing their traumas and
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they're bringing their pain
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and they're bringing
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their doubts about God
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and why things are happening
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in their life,
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and they're just done.
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They're just done.
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You developed in this book
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some tools for them.
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Can you tell me about this?
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DEBRA: Yeah, absolutely.
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As a licensed counselor,
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I'm working with people
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on all levels.
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I'm working with
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high-capacity people.
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I'm working with pastors
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and leaders that you would
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know their names.
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But so many people are
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struggling with burnout.
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And so, as a counselor,
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the first thing you want
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is to help people get
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to the root of the why?
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Because I can give you
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these rhythms that
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we're about to talk about.
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We're going to unpack
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some of these rhythms
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here in a minute,
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and I could start
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with the rhythms, but
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if I don't get to the root
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of the why,
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why are you burnt out?
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Why do you keep repeating
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these cycles to begin with?
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You're just going to do it
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all over again.
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In my studies, I found that
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there are three types
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of people who tend
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to put their needs
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on the back burner,
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who tend to ignore
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their needs, who tend
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to ignore their feelings,
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and just push through,
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focus on everybody else.
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The first type
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is the firstborns.
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Firstborns tend to be
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over-responsible.
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They tend to fill in the gaps
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for everybody else.
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They tend to be
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parent pleasers who
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eventually become
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people pleasers.
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They have a tendency to put
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the needs of others first
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because they want to please.
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Then there's another group
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of people who tend to neglect
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their own needs,
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and that tends to be people
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who come from a family
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where someone else
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in the family
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had higher needs.
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So maybe it was a sibling
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with a disability
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or a mental health struggle,
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or an addiction.
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Or maybe someone in the family
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was rebellious,
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or maybe there was conflict,
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or something in the family,
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or someone else
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had higher needs.
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So, what do you do
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with your needs?
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There's no room here
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for my needs.
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So I'm just going to
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focus in on others.
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I'm going to ignore my needs.
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And the third group was people
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who came from families
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where either mom or dad
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or both were emotionally
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unavailable.
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So maybe dad was a workaholic,
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alcoholic, ministry-aholic.
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Maybe mom was stressed out,
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checked out.
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And so you have these needs
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as a child, you go to dad,
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he's not available.
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you go to mom,
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she's not available,
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not interested, not able,
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and so you learn
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to suppress your needs.
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I'm sure some people who are
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listening today are thinking,
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I have all three of those --
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all three of those traits.
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Whether you have just one
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or three, you get really good
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at neglecting yourself
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to the point of feeling empty.
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So we have to start with,
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where did these patterns
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come from?
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What are the narratives
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that I believe?
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What is the family of origin
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that I've experienced that
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has shaped me to be this way?
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Because God wants
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to break those patterns.
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God doesn't want to just
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heal us in our present.
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He wants to heal us
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from our past as well.
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That's why I think --
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I know I'm a counselor
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and I love talking about
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this stuff,
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but I truly believe
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it's a spiritual significance
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to allow Jesus to come in
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and heal our past
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so that he can heal
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our present as well.
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And then that's where
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the rhythms come in.
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BLYNDA: Is that partly
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because -- is it true that
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if you've lived that way for
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a long time, it will
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at some point show itself?
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You can't just...
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DEBRA: Snap your fingers
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and make it go away.
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BLYNDA: So, you're going
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to have to deal with it.
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DEBRA: The same roles
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that served you
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in one season of life,
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if left unchecked
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and unaddressed
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and unaligned to God's truth,
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will sabotage you
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in another season of life.
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So this is why we really
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have to take inventory.
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Why am I always burnt out?
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Why am I always saying yes
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when I really should
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be saying no?
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Why am I always spread
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too thin and overcommitted?
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This isn't just
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a personality thing.
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This is something that
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we really have to get
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to the root of.
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TAMMY: When do we also have
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to get to the root of,
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die to self?
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Put yourself last.
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You're here to serve,
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not to be served.
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So that whole idea
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of Soul Care
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and self-care.
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So many of us have been taught
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that's selfish thinking.
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So, then we neglect all of
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our needs, all the things
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we're going through
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as believers,
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and taught that that's
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just your burden to carry.
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DEBRA: We do it
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in the name of scripture,
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in the name of theology.
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But that's not what
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God calls us to do.
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That's not what Jesus
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calls us to do.
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That's not how Jesus
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lived his life.
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In fact, the Bible tells us
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that we are to love others
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as we love ourselves.
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It's coming from a place
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where we're speaking to
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the Israelites,
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God's chosen people
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who are set apart,
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anointed, special.
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They know that
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they're special.
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Out of that,
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they are to love others.
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The problem is, we don't see
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ourselves in that same way.
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And why I think this is
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biblical, not only because of
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the different Bible passages
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that we already referenced,
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but because I saw it
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in the life of Jesus.
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As I was writing Soul Care,
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I'm studying the Gospels,
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and I'm seeing the fact
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that Jesus himself,
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who is fully God
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yet fully man,
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honored his human capacity.
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He practiced these rhythms
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to stay healthy
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and to stay filled,
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because high levels
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of pouring out require
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high levels of filling.
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So Jesus did this.
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If Jesus practiced these,
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how much more
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do we as fully human beings
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need to practice these rhythms
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to care for ourselves as well?
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BLYNDA: I love it.
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I remember even reading
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that you said, actually,
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living at 100% is really
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living at 85%.
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That we should all just be --
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Explain that, even.
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Living at the 85%.
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DEBRA: One of the rhythms
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I talk about in Soul Care
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is the rhythm of rest.
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It's not just about resting
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at night, although we talk
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about the science
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and psychology of sleep, but
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it's also about living life
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with a slower pace,
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an intentional pace.
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I talk about living at 85%
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because when you look at
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how Jesus lived, there was
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room for interruptions.
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He wasn't rushed.
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He was intentional
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with his pace.
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If I give you a check,
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a paycheck, and you spent 100%
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of it every time, you would
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eventually find yourself
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struggling and in debt.
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Why do we do that with
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our emotional capacity
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and think it's good?
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Why do we live at 100%
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and assume nothing's going
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to break and we're not going
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to be in debt emotionally?
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We will burn out
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if we're constantly living
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at max capacity.
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So what does it look like
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for us to pull back and allow
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God to do what he can do?
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I mean, Jesus took naps.
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We should be more like Jesus.
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He rested.
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He paced himself.
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So the rhythm of rest
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is a really important rhythm,
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and we see it practiced
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in the life of Jesus.
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BLYNDA: But practically,
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I know you're saying that,
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but then I'm listening to
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the mom who's on the soccer
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field right now,
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then go to Bible study, and
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come home and cook dinner.
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I mean, there's just a lot.
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You carry a lot.
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You have four kids, and
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you have an entire practice
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that you run.
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I mean, we can say living
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at 85% and looking at Jesus
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and following how
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he had margin, but
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how is the practical way
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to do that?
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DEBRA: Well, I would say
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let's move into the rhythm
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of protect.
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The rhythm of protect
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is about setting healthy
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boundaries, learning
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to say no, and not yet.
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sometimes, as Christians,
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we think it's wrong to say no
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to good things.
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Let's say it's a ministry
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opportunity,
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or I have to volunteer.
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Just because you can
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do something doesn't mean
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you should.
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And when you look at the life
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of Christ, he said no, and
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not yet on a regular basis.
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Why?
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Because he wanted to protect
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his relationship
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with the Father.
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He wanted to protect
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his heart.
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He wanted to protect
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his calling.
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Sometimes, we say yes
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to so many things that
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we end up watering down
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the very things that
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God has called us to do
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because we're doing too much.
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And so, the rhythm of protect
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is taking a good, hard look
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at our yeses and our no's,
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what we've committed to,
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and making sure we're aligned
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to the Holy Spirit.
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Jesus wasn't motivated
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by the obligation of man.
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The Bible says he didn't care
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much about the opinion of man.
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I don't think that means
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he didn't care about people.
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I think it means that
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he cared more about what
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God thought, and he was
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so in-tune to God's calling
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that it was easy for him
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to say, no, I'm not
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going to do that.
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Oh, you want me
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to go to that town next?
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No, actually, I'm going
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to go to this town next.
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No, it's not my time yet.
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He was really good
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at setting boundaries.
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The disciples hardly ever
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knew where he was.
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It made me laugh sometimes
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in Scripture.
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It's like, where did Jesus go?
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He protected his time
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with the Father.
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He knew!
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There were so many demands,
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such a high pouring out,
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that he had to get filled up
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with the Father.
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He prioritized that time.
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He protected.
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He would go to the garden
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and pray.
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We don't take it seriously
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enough, the importance
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of protecting what
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God has called us to.
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And so, the rhythm of protect
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calls us to kind of face
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some of these boundaries
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that we have and
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begin to do it differently.
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BLYNDA: And I think some
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of it is because we just
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tell ourselves it just has
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to get done right,
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it's what we have to do.
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We don't immediately have
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a consequence to a decision.
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The consequence isn't until
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down the road, and then
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it's too late at that point.
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DEBRA: When something
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breaks down,
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when we break down,
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and we're not able to do
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what God has called us to do.
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TAMMY: What are
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the six rhythms
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that prevent burnout?
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We've covered a few there.
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Number one was nourish,
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protect your calling, rest,
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connect, savor, and tune in.
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Let's talk about savor.
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DEBRA: Savor was my favorite
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because I think it was
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the one that spoke to me
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where I'm at.
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But it's also one that
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I don't think
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we talk about enough.
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The rhythm of savor is about
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slowing down to enjoy life,
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to be present in the moment.
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Right here, right now.
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I'm a checklist girl.
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I like to get things done.
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When you ask me what's next,
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I'm ready to answer that.
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And I felt as I was writing
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this chapter, this section
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of the book, that God said
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to me, I don't want you
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to think about what's next.
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I want you to embrace
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what's now what is
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right before you right now.
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We get so distracted by
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the worries of the future,
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the regrets from the past,
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the phone in our pocket,
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that's constantly in our face
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that we're missing the moment.
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Jesus was so good
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at being present.
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My favorite verse --
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You know, as I was writing
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Soul Care, some verses
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stuck out at me that
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I'd never seen before.
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I've read the gospel
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so many times.
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Matthew 13, verse one,
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"Jesus left the house and went
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and sat by the lake."
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Period.
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TAMMY: What verse is that?
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DEBRA: Matthew 13:1.
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TAMMY: It's my new favorite.
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DEBRA: And of course,
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people found him,
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and eventually, a crowd
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gathered around him.
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But the idea was that
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he went to leave the house.
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He left the crowd and went --
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I love the ocean.
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I love being by the water,
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and just to imagine him
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savoring that moment.
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Not only that, but Jesus
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savored life during suffering.
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Right before he went to
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the cross, the Last Supper,
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he was present
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with his disciples.
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He was right there
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in the moment,
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in this moment, right here.
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This is all we're guaranteed.
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We don't want to miss it!
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The enemy wants us
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to miss the moment.
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But God is in the moment.
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Learning to savor the moment
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means we're learning
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to savor him.
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We're learning to be with him.
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BLYNDA: And it's heightening
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our senses.
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It's listening and touching,
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and feeling the moment --
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the present moment.
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DEBRA: And God in it.
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TAMMY: Can I read something
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to you that I read online
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relating to your book?
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Somebody said this,
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and I can't help but think
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that there are probably
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many people watching right now
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who feel the same way.
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This is what I wrote down.
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What they said.
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"When you are so depleted,
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you may not even have
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the capacity to be thinking
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about how you can
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fill yourself up
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so you can serve more.
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It's entirely possible
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that you could be so depleted
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at points that you can't
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even think of serving anything
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or anyone."
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DEBRA: And that's the truth
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because when we self-neglect,
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which is funny.
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The reason we self-neglect
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is because we don't want
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to be selfish, right?
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I don't want to be selfish,
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so I don't want
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to focus on myself.
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But if you take
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that down the path,
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what ends up happening?
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You self-neglect.
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You become completely empty.
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And guess who you think about
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when you're completely empty?
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No one but yourself.
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So, what ends up –-
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self-neglect ends up leading
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to selfishness
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because we're so depleted
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and so burnt out.
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And so, for someone like that,
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my encouragement to them
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would be to start
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where you're the weakest.
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Read through these rhythms.
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Start where
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you're the weakest.
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You don't want to start
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doing them all at once because
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I don't want you to burn out
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trying not to burn out.
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So where you're the weakest,
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because that's what will
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fill you up the most
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and have the most impact
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right away.
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TAMMY: It's so good, Debra.
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I want to make sure to get
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this book in your hands.
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It's so, so good.
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Let me just ask you, I could
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tell you all kinds of things
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about what I've read, but
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in just five, ten seconds,
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what do you hope that a reader
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gets when they get
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to the last page?
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DEBRA: I hope they will be
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challenged to take seriously,
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the call.
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The spiritual discipline
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of filling up so that
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they can live life fully
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and do all that God
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has called them to do.
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TAMMY: Praise God,
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there's the message.
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Do you know what?
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There are some people
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right now around the world
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who really, literally need
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filling up, but they need
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fresh, clean water.
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They are desperate
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for Soul Care.
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They are desperate for
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an answer to their prayers.
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They're desperate
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for somebody to show up.
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And we have an opportunity
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to do that together today.
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Right now, just take
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a second and watch this.
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♪
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♪
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RANDY: You know,
so many people don't have
a choice
00:20:01.900 --> 00:20:04.002 align:center line:58% position:50% size:33%
when it comes
to water.
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The only water source
that they have is the one
nearest them.
00:20:08.006 --> 00:20:12.344 align:start line:79% position:33% size:33%
In this case,
a river.
00:20:12.411 --> 00:20:16.548 align:start line:79% position:20% size:60%
When you look at it,
it doesn't look too bad.
00:20:16.615 --> 00:20:18.750 align:start line:79% position:13% size:73%
It's a little dirty, but
you can see some of the areas
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where there's moss
and animals,
00:20:21.086 --> 00:20:23.088 align:center line:79% position:50% size:45%
and people bathing
and swimming.
00:20:23.155 --> 00:20:27.192 align:start line:79% position:13% size:75%
They tell us there's all sorts
of contamination in here.
00:20:27.259 --> 00:20:31.029 align:start line:79% position:13% size:73%
It's not so much what you can
see in here that's dangerous,
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it's what
you can't see.
00:20:33.565 --> 00:20:36.101 align:start line:79% position:28% size:43%
It's what goes
into the stomachs
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and the systems of even
the youngest of children.
00:20:39.538 --> 00:20:41.707 align:start line:79% position:35% size:30%
It hits them
the hardest.
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[Cheering and Clapping]
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RANDY: Fresh,
clean drinking water.
00:21:05.864 --> 00:21:08.634 align:center line:79% position:50% size:33%
You can give
that to them.
00:21:08.700 --> 00:21:10.869 align:start line:79% position:30% size:38%
We know because
we've given it
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to others in villages
all across the world.
00:21:14.806 --> 00:21:17.309 align:start line:79% position:25% size:48%
But we need to come
into this village,
00:21:17.376 --> 00:21:20.112 align:center line:79% position:50% size:63%
and that village
a few miles up the river,
00:21:20.178 --> 00:21:23.115 align:center line:79% position:50% size:70%
and that village over there,
across the river.
00:21:23.181 --> 00:21:26.518 align:start line:79% position:23% size:55%
We need to come in
with many water wells.
00:21:26.585 --> 00:21:29.921 align:start line:79% position:23% size:55%
I'm asking you
to make that possible.
00:21:29.988 --> 00:21:32.024 align:start line:79% position:28% size:43%
The more of you
that join with us
00:21:32.090 --> 00:21:34.126 align:center line:79% position:50% size:38%
in Mission:
Water for Life,
00:21:34.192 --> 00:21:36.395 align:center line:79% position:50% size:58%
the more water wells
we'll be able to drill.
00:21:36.461 --> 00:21:38.697 align:start line:79% position:23% size:55%
It's my heart's desire
that no child
00:21:38.764 --> 00:21:41.500 align:center line:79% position:50% size:48%
would ever drink
contaminated water.
00:21:41.566 --> 00:21:45.804 align:start line:79% position:18% size:65%
I promise you, you will
be helping to save a life.
00:21:52.077 --> 00:21:53.245 align:start line:85% position:10% size:48%
TAMMY: Randy, I can
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promise them, too.
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Yes! You will be a part
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of saving a life, Blynda.
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I'm telling you.
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You had just asked me
00:22:00.419 --> 00:22:01.486 align:start line:85% position:10% size:43%
when you saw that
00:22:01.553 --> 00:22:02.921 align:start line:85% position:10% size:48%
water spring forth.
00:22:02.988 --> 00:22:04.556 align:start line:85% position:10% size:73%
You could see me sitting here
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watching that, and you said,
00:22:07.659 --> 00:22:08.794 align:start line:85% position:10% size:50%
"Have you been there
00:22:08.860 --> 00:22:09.961 align:start line:85% position:10% size:43%
for that moment?"
00:22:10.028 --> 00:22:11.196 align:start line:85% position:10% size:45%
I was like, "Yes!"
00:22:11.263 --> 00:22:12.297 align:start line:85% position:10% size:70%
BLYNDA: Because I'm watching
00:22:12.364 --> 00:22:13.598 align:start line:85% position:10% size:63%
the moment, and I'm like,
00:22:13.665 --> 00:22:15.233 align:start line:85% position:10% size:75%
that is incredible to see them
00:22:15.300 --> 00:22:18.570 align:start line:85% position:10% size:45%
just absolutely --
00:22:18.637 --> 00:22:19.838 align:start line:85% position:10% size:58%
a miracle has happened.
00:22:19.905 --> 00:22:20.972 align:start line:85% position:10% size:35%
It's a miracle
00:22:21.039 --> 00:22:22.040 align:start line:85% position:10% size:60%
they're watching happen.
00:22:22.107 --> 00:22:23.508 align:start line:85% position:10% size:48%
It's not any longer
00:22:23.575 --> 00:22:24.609 align:start line:85% position:10% size:60%
just a hope or a prayer,
00:22:24.676 --> 00:22:25.877 align:start line:85% position:10% size:35%
it's tangible.
00:22:25.944 --> 00:22:27.279 align:start line:85% position:10% size:60%
It's actually happening.
00:22:27.345 --> 00:22:28.647 align:start line:85% position:10% size:75%
Their life is changed forever.
00:22:28.714 --> 00:22:29.848 align:start line:85% position:10% size:45%
It literally means
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they are going to live.
00:22:31.917 --> 00:22:33.685 align:start line:85% position:10% size:73%
So, I just hope that everyone
00:22:33.752 --> 00:22:36.755 align:start line:85% position:10% size:68%
watching really understands
00:22:36.822 --> 00:22:38.590 align:start line:85% position:10% size:68%
they're a difference maker;
00:22:38.657 --> 00:22:40.092 align:start line:85% position:10% size:60%
that the moment you were
00:22:40.158 --> 00:22:41.660 align:start line:85% position:10% size:48%
a part of, they get
00:22:41.727 --> 00:22:43.395 align:start line:85% position:10% size:65%
to be part of that moment.
00:22:43.462 --> 00:22:44.563 align:start line:85% position:10% size:43%
when they donate,
00:22:44.629 --> 00:22:45.964 align:start line:85% position:10% size:38%
when they give.
00:22:46.298 --> 00:22:47.566 align:start line:10% position:10% size:68%
TAMMY: Incredibly exciting!
00:22:47.632 --> 00:22:48.767 align:start line:10% position:10% size:53%
I think that's one of
00:22:48.834 --> 00:22:50.068 align:start line:10% position:10% size:63%
the greatest parts for me
00:22:50.135 --> 00:22:51.203 align:start line:10% position:10% size:55%
doing mission work for
00:22:51.269 --> 00:22:52.471 align:start line:10% position:10% size:58%
Life Outreach is to see
00:22:52.537 --> 00:22:54.473 align:start line:10% position:10% size:38%
the resolution,
00:22:54.539 --> 00:22:55.941 align:start line:10% position:10% size:70%
to see the redemption story,
00:22:56.007 --> 00:22:57.109 align:start line:10% position:10% size:48%
to see the victory,
00:22:57.175 --> 00:22:58.343 align:start line:10% position:10% size:53%
to see all the things
00:22:58.410 --> 00:22:59.478 align:start line:10% position:10% size:53%
that they prayed for.
00:22:59.544 --> 00:23:00.545 align:start line:10% position:10% size:48%
The answered prayer
00:23:00.612 --> 00:23:01.613 align:start line:10% position:10% size:40%
come to fruition
00:23:01.680 --> 00:23:03.415 align:start line:10% position:10% size:65%
right in front of my eyes.
00:23:03.482 --> 00:23:04.616 align:start line:10% position:10% size:75%
I'm like, it feels like family
00:23:04.683 --> 00:23:05.684 align:start line:10% position:10% size:63%
when I'm in these places.
00:23:05.751 --> 00:23:06.752 align:start line:10% position:10% size:65%
Like, these are my family.
00:23:06.818 --> 00:23:07.819 align:start line:10% position:10% size:45%
I've been fighting
00:23:07.886 --> 00:23:08.887 align:start line:10% position:10% size:43%
for this for you.
00:23:08.954 --> 00:23:09.955 align:start line:10% position:10% size:65%
I've been trying sometimes
00:23:10.021 --> 00:23:11.022 align:start line:10% position:10% size:48%
for months or years
00:23:11.089 --> 00:23:12.090 align:start line:10% position:10% size:53%
to get water in these
00:23:12.157 --> 00:23:13.158 align:start line:10% position:10% size:43%
certain villages,
00:23:13.225 --> 00:23:14.226 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
in these places that are
00:23:14.292 --> 00:23:15.427 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
so remote and so far out
00:23:15.494 --> 00:23:16.661 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
that it's hard to get to
00:23:16.728 --> 00:23:17.729 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
where we've got to raise
00:23:17.796 --> 00:23:18.797 align:start line:10% position:10% size:63%
more funds for this well,
00:23:18.864 --> 00:23:19.865 align:start line:10% position:10% size:33%
or that well.
00:23:19.931 --> 00:23:20.932 align:start line:10% position:10% size:63%
Sometimes, it takes time.
00:23:20.999 --> 00:23:22.000 align:start line:10% position:10% size:55%
When I'm finally there
00:23:22.067 --> 00:23:23.068 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
and I'm seeing it happen
00:23:23.135 --> 00:23:24.136 align:start line:10% position:10% size:38%
before my eyes,
00:23:24.202 --> 00:23:27.339 align:start line:10% position:10% size:70%
it is a celebration of life.
00:23:27.405 --> 00:23:29.574 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
So, let me tell you what
00:23:29.641 --> 00:23:30.709 align:start line:10% position:10% size:65%
that would look like today
00:23:30.776 --> 00:23:31.777 align:start line:10% position:10% size:20%
for you.
00:23:31.843 --> 00:23:33.245 align:start line:10% position:10% size:70%
If you've never had a chance
00:23:33.311 --> 00:23:34.412 align:start line:10% position:10% size:65%
to give to this incredible
00:23:34.479 --> 00:23:35.480 align:start line:10% position:10% size:63%
outreach, today's the day
00:23:35.547 --> 00:23:36.615 align:start line:10% position:10% size:23%
to do it.
00:23:36.681 --> 00:23:38.750 align:start line:10% position:10% size:58%
We are trying to build,
00:23:38.817 --> 00:23:39.951 align:start line:10% position:10% size:48%
drill I should say,
00:23:40.018 --> 00:23:43.155 align:start line:10% position:10% size:75%
350 water wells in 20 nations.
00:23:43.221 --> 00:23:44.322 align:start line:10% position:10% size:50%
Let me tell you what
00:23:44.389 --> 00:23:45.457 align:start line:10% position:10% size:73%
that would look like, because
00:23:45.524 --> 00:23:46.625 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
we can all get involved.
00:23:46.691 --> 00:23:47.859 align:start line:10% position:10% size:68%
Blynda, every single person
00:23:47.926 --> 00:23:48.994 align:start line:10% position:10% size:58%
can do something today.
00:23:49.060 --> 00:23:50.529 align:start line:10% position:10% size:55%
$48 will provide water
00:23:50.595 --> 00:23:52.063 align:start line:10% position:10% size:45%
for ten people for
00:23:52.130 --> 00:23:53.999 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
the rest of their lives.
00:23:54.065 --> 00:23:57.269 align:start line:10% position:10% size:68%
$144 will provide 30 people
00:23:57.335 --> 00:23:58.403 align:start line:10% position:10% size:58%
with water for the rest
00:23:58.470 --> 00:23:59.538 align:start line:10% position:10% size:38%
of their lives.
00:23:59.604 --> 00:24:01.273 align:start line:10% position:10% size:75%
And for $4,800, we could go in
00:24:01.339 --> 00:24:02.974 align:start line:10% position:10% size:63%
and drill a complete well
00:24:03.041 --> 00:24:04.276 align:start line:10% position:10% size:53%
for an entire village
00:24:04.342 --> 00:24:05.777 align:start line:10% position:10% size:50%
of about 1000 people
00:24:05.844 --> 00:24:06.912 align:start line:10% position:10% size:70%
for the rest of their lives.
00:24:06.978 --> 00:24:08.046 align:start line:10% position:10% size:33%
I can't think
00:24:08.113 --> 00:24:09.181 align:start line:10% position:10% size:43%
of a better place
00:24:09.247 --> 00:24:11.683 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
than this to put $4,800.
00:24:11.750 --> 00:24:12.751 align:start line:10% position:10% size:45%
It is life-giving,
00:24:12.818 --> 00:24:13.819 align:start line:10% position:10% size:45%
life-changing, and
00:24:13.885 --> 00:24:14.886 align:start line:10% position:10% size:50%
these are the things
00:24:14.953 --> 00:24:16.354 align:start line:10% position:10% size:58%
I want to be a part of.
00:24:16.421 --> 00:24:17.422 align:start line:10% position:10% size:58%
That's why I love being
00:24:17.489 --> 00:24:18.490 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
a part of this ministry.
00:24:18.557 --> 00:24:19.558 align:start line:10% position:10% size:25%
Go online,
00:24:19.624 --> 00:24:20.759 align:start line:10% position:10% size:68%
give the best gift you can.
00:24:20.826 --> 00:24:21.827 align:start line:10% position:10% size:28%
Do whatever
00:24:21.893 --> 00:24:22.894 align:start line:10% position:10% size:48%
you can give today.
00:24:22.961 --> 00:24:23.962 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
It matters today because
00:24:24.029 --> 00:24:25.030 align:start line:10% position:10% size:73%
they might not have tomorrow,
00:24:25.096 --> 00:24:26.097 align:start line:10% position:10% size:50%
but they have today.
00:24:26.164 --> 00:24:27.232 align:start line:10% position:10% size:50%
So, let's act today.
00:24:27.299 --> 00:24:29.000 align:start line:10% position:10% size:25%
Right now.
00:24:30.135 --> 00:24:32.237 align:start line:10% position:10% size:50%
Every day, thousands
of lives are lost
00:24:32.304 --> 00:24:34.306 align:center line:10% position:38% size:55%
to waterborne disease,
00:24:34.372 --> 00:24:36.308 align:center line:10% position:50% size:60%
and nearly half of those
are children
00:24:36.374 --> 00:24:38.343 align:center line:10% position:50% size:33%
under the age
of five.
00:24:38.410 --> 00:24:40.445 align:start line:10% position:30% size:40%
Through Mission:
Water for LIFE
00:24:40.512 --> 00:24:42.681 align:center line:10% position:50% size:63%
you can give mothers hope
and children a future
00:24:42.747 --> 00:24:45.016 align:center line:10% position:50% size:50%
as we provide clean,
life-giving water
00:24:45.083 --> 00:24:47.552 align:center line:10% position:50% size:63%
for thousands of children
and their families
00:24:47.619 --> 00:24:49.554 align:center line:10% position:50% size:53%
before it's too late.
00:24:49.621 --> 00:24:51.623 align:start line:10% position:23% size:53%
With your gift today,
you can help drill
00:24:51.690 --> 00:24:54.392 align:center line:10% position:50% size:65%
and establish
350 water wells this year.
00:24:54.459 --> 00:24:56.461 align:center line:10% position:30% size:40%
Your gift of $24
00:24:56.528 --> 00:24:58.730 align:center line:10% position:50% size:73%
will help provide clean water
for five children.
00:24:58.797 --> 00:25:01.299 align:start line:10% position:10% size:43%
A gift of $48
will help provide
for ten.
00:25:01.366 --> 00:25:03.835 align:center line:10% position:33% size:43%
And $144
will help provide
00:25:03.902 --> 00:25:05.837 align:center line:10% position:33% size:43%
life-giving water
for 30 people
00:25:05.904 --> 00:25:07.873 align:center line:10% position:30% size:38%
for a lifetime.
00:25:07.939 --> 00:25:09.908 align:start line:10% position:23% size:35%
With a gift
of any amount,
00:25:09.975 --> 00:25:11.977 align:center line:10% position:50% size:68%
we'll send you, Prayers for
my Physical Health,
00:25:12.043 --> 00:25:14.079 align:start line:10% position:10% size:60%
a Bible-based collection
of 52 prayers designed
00:25:14.145 --> 00:25:17.883 align:center line:10% position:45% size:68%
to bring strength, healing,
and renewal to every area
of your body
00:25:17.949 --> 00:25:19.951 align:center line:10% position:38% size:53%
covering a wide range
of physical needs.
00:25:20.018 --> 00:25:22.020 align:start line:10% position:10% size:73%
This beautifully crafted book
encourages
00:25:22.087 --> 00:25:24.589 align:center line:10% position:38% size:55%
intimate conversations
with God.
00:25:24.656 --> 00:25:26.725 align:start line:10% position:10% size:40%
With a gift
of $100 or more,
00:25:26.791 --> 00:25:29.494 align:center line:10% position:45% size:68%
you may request the
"Armor of God" tumbler set.
00:25:29.561 --> 00:25:31.763 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
These two 20-ounce
stainless steel tumblers
00:25:31.830 --> 00:25:33.999 align:center line:58% position:35% size:48%
each inscribed with
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00:25:34.065 --> 00:25:36.067 align:center line:58% position:33% size:45%
are a practical
and meaningful way
00:25:36.134 --> 00:25:38.136 align:center line:58% position:35% size:48%
to carry a reminder
of God's strength
00:25:38.203 --> 00:25:40.305 align:center line:58% position:35% size:50%
and protection
throughout your day.
00:25:40.372 --> 00:25:43.041 align:start line:10% position:20% size:60%
Finally, please consider
a gift of $1200
00:25:43.108 --> 00:25:45.677 align:center line:10% position:50% size:53%
to help provide water
for 250 people
00:25:45.744 --> 00:25:47.679 align:center line:10% position:50% size:45%
or a gift of $4800
00:25:47.746 --> 00:25:49.714 align:center line:10% position:45% size:40%
to help sponsor
a complete well,
00:25:49.781 --> 00:25:52.017 align:center line:10% position:48% size:63%
and request our inspiring
bronze sculpture,
00:25:52.083 --> 00:25:54.085 align:center line:10% position:40% size:40%
"Lion of Judah."
00:25:54.152 --> 00:25:58.523 align:start line:10% position:15% size:68%
Please call, write, or make
your gift online today!
00:25:59.925 --> 00:26:00.959 align:start line:58% position:10% size:33%
TAMMY: I hope
00:26:01.026 --> 00:26:02.127 align:start line:58% position:10% size:48%
you're going online
00:26:02.193 --> 00:26:03.228 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
and giving the best gift
00:26:03.295 --> 00:26:04.362 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
that you can give today.
00:26:04.429 --> 00:26:05.463 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
Please know that it will
00:26:05.530 --> 00:26:06.698 align:start line:58% position:10% size:55%
make an eternal impact
00:26:06.765 --> 00:26:07.799 align:start line:58% position:10% size:68%
and difference in the lives
00:26:07.866 --> 00:26:08.900 align:start line:58% position:10% size:70%
of so many around the world.
00:26:08.967 --> 00:26:10.101 align:start line:58% position:10% size:55%
When you do, I'm going
00:26:10.168 --> 00:26:11.403 align:start line:58% position:10% size:73%
to send you Debra's new book,
00:26:11.469 --> 00:26:12.537 align:start line:58% position:10% size:25%
Soul Care.
00:26:12.604 --> 00:26:13.571 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
You're going to love it.
00:26:13.638 --> 00:26:14.673 align:start line:58% position:10% size:70%
So request it when you call.
00:26:14.739 --> 00:26:15.807 align:start line:58% position:10% size:65%
For any amount you're able
00:26:15.874 --> 00:26:17.008 align:start line:58% position:10% size:35%
to give today,
00:26:17.075 --> 00:26:18.343 align:start line:58% position:10% size:58%
I'll get you this book.
00:26:18.410 --> 00:26:20.145 align:start line:58% position:10% size:50%
So, Debra, thank you
00:26:20.211 --> 00:26:21.246 align:start line:58% position:10% size:38%
for being here.
00:26:21.313 --> 00:26:23.081 align:start line:58% position:10% size:50%
You're really a gift
00:26:23.148 --> 00:26:24.482 align:start line:58% position:10% size:55%
to the body of Christ.
00:26:24.549 --> 00:26:25.717 align:start line:58% position:10% size:45%
I want to give you
00:26:25.784 --> 00:26:26.885 align:start line:58% position:10% size:55%
an opportunity to just
00:26:26.952 --> 00:26:28.253 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
leave us with something.
00:26:28.320 --> 00:26:29.354 align:start line:58% position:10% size:58%
DEBRA: I know there are
00:26:29.421 --> 00:26:30.755 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
so many of you out there
00:26:30.822 --> 00:26:32.023 align:start line:58% position:10% size:73%
who are listening, and you're
00:26:32.090 --> 00:26:34.459 align:start line:58% position:10% size:68%
feeling empty and depleted.
00:26:34.526 --> 00:26:35.694 align:start line:58% position:10% size:55%
So, number one, I want
00:26:35.760 --> 00:26:37.696 align:start line:58% position:10% size:65%
to pray for a supernatural
00:26:37.762 --> 00:26:39.364 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
filling over you because
00:26:39.431 --> 00:26:40.699 align:start line:58% position:10% size:55%
we serve a God who can
00:26:40.765 --> 00:26:42.367 align:start line:58% position:10% size:28%
fill us up.
00:26:42.434 --> 00:26:44.669 align:start line:58% position:10% size:65%
He's the only one who can.
00:26:44.736 --> 00:26:45.971 align:start line:58% position:10% size:63%
But there are some of you
00:26:46.037 --> 00:26:47.839 align:start line:58% position:10% size:58%
out there who also need
00:26:47.906 --> 00:26:49.307 align:start line:58% position:10% size:48%
to partner with him
00:26:49.374 --> 00:26:51.409 align:start line:58% position:10% size:73%
on the journey of filling up.
00:26:51.476 --> 00:26:53.645 align:start line:58% position:10% size:53%
He wants to help walk
00:26:53.712 --> 00:26:54.813 align:start line:58% position:10% size:63%
by your side and help you
00:26:54.879 --> 00:26:56.381 align:start line:58% position:10% size:75%
practice some of these rhythms
00:26:56.448 --> 00:26:57.682 align:start line:58% position:10% size:53%
so that it's not just
00:26:57.749 --> 00:26:59.451 align:start line:58% position:10% size:48%
a one-time filling,
00:26:59.517 --> 00:27:00.952 align:start line:58% position:10% size:63%
but that you can continue
00:27:01.019 --> 00:27:02.821 align:start line:58% position:10% size:43%
to remain filled.
00:27:02.887 --> 00:27:04.189 align:start line:58% position:10% size:50%
So we're praying for
00:27:04.255 --> 00:27:05.924 align:start line:58% position:10% size:70%
your filling supernaturally,
00:27:05.991 --> 00:27:07.359 align:start line:58% position:10% size:48%
and in partnership,
00:27:07.425 --> 00:27:08.693 align:start line:58% position:10% size:40%
in Jesus's name.
00:27:08.760 --> 00:27:09.828 align:start line:58% position:10% size:58%
TAMMY: In Jesus's name.
00:27:09.894 --> 00:27:11.096 align:start line:58% position:10% size:63%
If you need prayer today,
00:27:11.162 --> 00:27:12.364 align:start line:58% position:10% size:40%
there's a number
00:27:12.430 --> 00:27:13.498 align:start line:58% position:10% size:38%
on your screen.
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Go now, pick up the phone.
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Don't hesitate. Don't wait.
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There are people waiting --
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waiting to pray with you
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right now
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and come alongside you.
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We love you!
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Debra, we love you.
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Blynda, love you, too.
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I'm so glad you're here.
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BLYNDA: Love you!
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TAMMY: Yes, I have loved it.
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God bless you guys.
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We'll see you next time
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on Life Today.
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>> And it was through
that period of time
I began to discover
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that we are really living
in the anxious generation.
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Next week
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