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&gt;&gt; The biggest,
soul-crushing thing for me

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to hear was when my wife
would say to my kids,

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"Calm down.
Be quiet!

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You don't want
to upset Dad."

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The place that
my kids and my wife,

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or anybody should
be the most safe

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or feel
the most protected

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is in their home

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and here I am
just an absolute monster.

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<i>After suffering with</i>
<i>severe PTSD, Branden Kunath</i>

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<i>found healing, hope, identity,</i>
<i>and a sense of purpose.</i>

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♪

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JAMES: I'm so glad

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you joined us today.

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I'm James Robison.

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My wife Betty

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and I welcome you

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to<i> Life Today</i>.

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The people that I think

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are the greatest heroes

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on the planet are

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the military and

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the armed service members,

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and all those who

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are the first responders.

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I think you're heroes.

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Some of you might live

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a pretty rough life.

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You've got to be pretty

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rough and pretty tough

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to take care of all of us

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who come under such

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fierce assault and

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do such foolish things,

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oftentimes, because you have

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to put your life in danger.

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And all of you in

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the armed services,

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you are risking your life

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and your limbs

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for our future

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and for freedom.

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I can't tell you how much

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Betty and I love you.

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We do help.

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I ask God to give us

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a way as a ministry

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because when you're feeding

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the hungry and saving

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their lives and

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their very life depends on it,

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they have no tomorrow

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if you don't feed them.

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Drilling water wells

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and they've never

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had fresh water.

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They have deadly,

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germ-infested,

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contaminated water

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that kills their children,

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their grandchildren,

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and their families.

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And we set people free

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from sexual slavery

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and bondage.

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It is amazing.

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We give shoes and smiles

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for Christmas.

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We've built a hospital

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that takes care of

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facial and body injuries,

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physical, overseas.

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It is in Uganda.

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It is amazing.

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You do these things.

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Now then we say

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God, how can we help

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our first responders?

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How can we help

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the armed service members?

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God gave us Mighty Oaks

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as an answer to prayer.

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We brought the couple in

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that you heard this week.

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You can go back online

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and listen to them,

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Suzanne and Jeremy Stalnecker.

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We have Jeremy today

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and one of the military,

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pretty rough guys.

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I'm going to ask him

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exactly how bad were you

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in the military doing what

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you were supposed to do?

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But then what happened?

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You're going to meet him.

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So, Jeremy, I want

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to welcome you back

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to<i> Life Today</i>.

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JEREMY: Thank you.

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It's great to be with you.

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JAMES: I want you to tell us

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about your guest.

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He's a pretty big

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strong guy.

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I wouldn't cross him.

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I know you're a Marine,

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I know you're tough,

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but I believe

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I'd leave him alone.

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Tell me about him.

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JEREMY: This is

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Branden Kunath.

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Branden is a retired Marine;

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served in a number

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of capacities.

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I think his claim to fame is,

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he will tell you he is

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a machine gunner, which

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he was for a long time.

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A lot of machine gunners

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did six combat deployments

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in Iraq and Afghanistan.

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And came to the Mighty Oaks

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programs, one of our programs

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back in 2013?

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BRANDEN: 2013.

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JEREMY: 2013, by way

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of the Wounded Warrior

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Battalion and Marine Corps.

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Wounded service members can

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go to a place to get help.

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We had a good relationship

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at the time with that unit

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at Camp Pendleton.

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Branden came to one

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of our programs.

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I won't speak for him but

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I think it changed his life.

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What's interesting about

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what we do at Mighty Oaks,

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and we say this all the time,

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is that there aren't

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professional clinicians.

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It is not a doctor speaking

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down to patients.

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Those who lead our programs,

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those who teach

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in our programs.

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Branden is our

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National Programs Director;

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leads all of our programs

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for Mighty Oaks.

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We've all found help,

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hope, and healing

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and had the opportunity

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to stand in the place

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where we can say,

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we know where you are

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because we've been there.

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We've struggled the way

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that you've struggled but

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God worked in our life

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and will help you as well.

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That's what Branden is doing

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every day at Mighty Oaks.

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JAMES: You mentioned to me,

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Branden, you had a pretty

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rough time in your life,

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your childhood, and so forth.

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Why did you have

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those tough times when

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you were younger?

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BRANDEN: Well, I come from

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a military family.

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My dad was in the army.

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I was born in Germany

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and we bounced back and forth

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from Fort Knox, Kentucky

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to Germany.

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I would tell you early on,

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I always wanted

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to join the military.

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That culture early on

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ingrained itself into me,

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the drinking, the partying,

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and all that stuff,

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I thought that was the norm.

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And then quickly,

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after the first Gulf War,

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after Desert Storm was done,

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my dad got out of the army.

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That changed the home dynamic.

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I just struggled to figure out

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who I was, what was going on.

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I had some early abuse

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that happened.

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My dad was trying

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to figure himself out.

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He had his own trials

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and tribulations that

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he was struggling through.

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And unfortunately, he took

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it out on my sister and I.

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That pushed us down

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this road to where I grew up

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trying to figure out who

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I was, not letting anybody

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hurt me or abuse me.

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Then I was in and out

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of juvenile hall.

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I thought that was

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the cool thing at that time.

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It gave me some notoriety

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or something, almost like

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a badge of honor.

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Then I threw a desk at

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my teacher in the 10th grade

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and then that kicked me out

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of the entire school board

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of Kentucky school system.

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I was like, "Dad,

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you joined the army

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so I'll join the army."

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So we went to see

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the recruiter.

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The recruiter was like,

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"Hey, we'd love to have you

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but you don't have

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any diploma.

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You don't have

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a high school diploma or GED

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or anything like that.

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There is nothing we can do."

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As I was about to leave,

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she interrupted me.

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She's like, "There is

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this thing I can

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introduce you to.

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It is a military academy.

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You can try to go there.

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You can apply and see

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if they'll accept you.

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It is a correctional

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military academy."

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I guess I was the perfect

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candidate for them because

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they accepted me right away,

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and so I went.

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I went through

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that military academy.

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Funny enough, I graduated

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as an honor graduate,

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top of my class.

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Which I always joke,

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my mom doesn't like when

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I do it, but I always joke

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that all that means is that

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I was the most improved

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of the bad kids.

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[Laughter]

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So quickly from that,

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I literally graduated from

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that military academy

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and next thing I know

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I'm at Marine Corps boot camp

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in Parris Island,

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South Carolina

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learning what a Marine was

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and how to become a Marine.

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JAMES: And went where?

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Where was your service?

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BRANDEN: So my first duty

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station was in Spain,

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Rota Spain.

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I was part of

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an anti-terrorism

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task force unit.

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At that time, 9/11 hadn't

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happened just yet.

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So the mission there

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and the environment was

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much different.

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We were protecting things.

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Then we saw the Twin Towers

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and what happened.

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That just shifted everything.

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I think anybody that was

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around at that time knows

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exactly where they were at.

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I was at a school training.

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I remember

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all the training stopped.

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We were brought

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into a classroom

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and they had the TV on.

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I looked up and I honestly

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thought I was looking at

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a movie.

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I thought it was a scene

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out of Die Hard that

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I'd never seen before,

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or some movie I'd never seen.

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And then the captain,

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the officer in charge

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walks in and tells us

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what happened.

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And that shifted everything.

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And then after that,

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I ended up in Iraq

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right after the initial push.

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So Jeremy went in early,

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early on.

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I called it where we came in

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and we were pretty much

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the tail end and we were

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sweeping up behind them.

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We were part of a Marine

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expeditionary unit

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so we were on a ship.

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We floated over,

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flew in to a place called

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Umm Qasr, which was

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one of the main port areas.

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So we were doing

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anti-smuggling

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counter operations there.

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And then just some

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other security stuff.

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From that time, we had

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to get back on the ship

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because we had to make

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our way back home.

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So that deployment,

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even though things happened,

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we were in Iraq,

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and the war was going on,

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I left that deployment

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feeling a little disappointed;

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like I didn't get

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the combat deployment I wanted

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or hoped for.

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I joined the Marine Corps

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to be an infantry guy.

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I became a machine gunner

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with that in mind.

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I knew what my job was.

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I knew what I was

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supposed to do.

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There was no war when

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I joined but the idea that

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it could happen was there.

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So leaving that deployment,

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I felt a little bit down.

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I had just enough time

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on that first contract

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to where I could easily

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go back over.

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A unit needed

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non-commissioned officers

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to go over again.

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So I did what we call

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cross-decking and I just

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turned and burned

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and went on another one.

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JAMES: As a machine gunner?

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BRANDEN: As a machine gunner.

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So I went from the unit,

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First Battalion First Marines,

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to Second Battalion

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First Marines.

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I was part of echo company.

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I found myself in a city

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called Fallujah.

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JAMES: And you ended up

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in Afghanistan too, right?

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BRANDEN: In 2010,

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I ended up in Afghanistan.

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And through that time,

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the short time between 2005

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and 2008 was really the only

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time I did not deploy.

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I was a combat instructor.

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JAMES: Did you realize

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how dangerous these people

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were that you were with

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in Afghanistan?

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BRANDEN: One hundred percent.

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JAMES: It was incredible.

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Because I knew Reagan and

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I knew General Daniel Graham,

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and the people that

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were the power in Afghanistan

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where Reagan was told

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these are the most

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dangerous people.

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They are more dangerous

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than the Soviet Union.

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You're resisting

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and using them to resist.

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They're actually

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more dangerous than

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the soviets would ever be.

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And of course, that proved

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to be very, very true.

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So you did finish out

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your service there, right?

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BRANDEN: I did. Yes, sir.

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JAMES: Why did you come home

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and when did you come home?

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BRANDEN: Well, through

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that time, 2005,

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I perfected my craft

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as a machine gunner.

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I made that a part of me,

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the culture, especially

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the infantry,

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is who's the strongest?

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Who's the toughest?

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Who can drink the most,

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yell the most, cuss the most,

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get with the most ladies?

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All those things

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and just be rough, tough.

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JAMES: That makes me sad

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when you're doing something

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so right, and yet

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the enemy can twist you up

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in your life to do

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so much so wrong.

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That's really the way

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the enemy operates.

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He is the greatest

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manipulator, deceiver.

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He's cunning, he's crafty,

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he's deadly.

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He's destructive.

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By the way, that's the enemy

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we're standing against.

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It is not people,

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it is spiritual --

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deceiving spirits

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and Satan.

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Okay, now we need to cut

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to the place where

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he reached a point

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where things fell apart --

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everything was coming apart.

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You end up involved

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with Mighty Oaks.

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Who wants to tell us

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how that happened,

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that connection?

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JEREMY: What I knew about

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Branden when he came

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to Mighty Oaks was,

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and what I learned about

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Branden was his marriage

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was falling apart.

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This is the story --

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its sad to say to your point,

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this is the common story

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that the marriage

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is falling apart.

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We've tried everything else

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and there is really

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nowhere else to go.

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I think that's fair

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to say, right?

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JAMES: Did you have children?

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And everything

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is coming apart?

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BRANDEN: Everything was

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coming apart.

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JAMES: Would you say

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it is the after-effect

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of the war and all the things

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that have been programmed

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into you that were not

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necessarily healthy

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and meaningful, and now

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it is coming to a head?

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BRANDEN: Everything came

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to a head.

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That last deployment

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I was on was a non-combat

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deployment.

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It was just an operation.

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That's where

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it felt like I hit mud

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and just stopped.

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The best way that I was

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able to operate was

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when I was really busy.

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Like during firefights

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or under stress,

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I could think the clearest.

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Everything slowed down and

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I could separate real well.

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But when I was at home,

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if we didn't order fast enough

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in the drive-through

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at a fast food restaurant

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I would lose my mind.

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Or if something didn't happen

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the way I wanted it to,

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I would lose my mind.

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So I could operate

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the best I could as a Marine

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but when I went home,

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I was a complete mess.

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I didn't know how

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to communicate with my wife.

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I did not know how

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to communicate with my kids.

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There was a moment

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when I came back from

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a training event

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and my daughter was two.

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I walked in the door,

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it was late at night,

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and I remember her falling

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off the couch where my wife

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and daughter were resting.

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She got tangled up

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in the blanket;

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she was so excited to see me.

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She went to run over because

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I came through the door

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as I'd just come home

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from training.

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I don't remember a moment

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like that later on.

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It was actually

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where's Camille?

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Where's my daughter?

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When I'd come home, my son,

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they would disappear.

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They scattered because

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they didn't know what dad

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was going to come home.

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They didn't know what

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was going to set me off.

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The biggest soul-crushing

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thing for me to hear

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was when my wife would say

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to my kids, "Calm down!

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Be quiet.

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We don't want to upset Dad."

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The place that my kids,

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my wife, anybody should

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be the most safe

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or feel the most protected

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is in their home

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and here I am just

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an absolute monster.

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I could say it was because

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of my deployments.

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I could say it was because

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of childhood trauma,

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all those things, but

00:15:10.342 --> 00:15:12.244 align:start line:85% position:10% size:60%
I chose to act that way.

00:15:12.311 --> 00:15:13.445 align:start line:85% position:10% size:50%
Now there are things

00:15:13.512 --> 00:15:14.847 align:start line:85% position:10% size:68%
that happened inside of me,

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the way I would respond

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to certain sounds, smells,

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those are normal,

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those are natural.

00:15:20.953 --> 00:15:22.788 align:start line:85% position:10% size:55%
But I chose to respond

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this way, to be a menace.

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BETTY: When did you feel like

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you had gotten to a point

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where you had to have help

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or you were going to do

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something really bad?

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BRANDEN: It never came

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to that point.

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It was here and there

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I would notice it but

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I'd pushed it down.

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I got to the point where

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I didn't even care that

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I didn't even care anymore.

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Like most people would

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be like, man,

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what's going on with me?

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I would do that, but

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I just didn't

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even care about it.

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When my wife and I would

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get into a fight,

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I would laugh about it.

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I would hurt people or --

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it was easy to destroy

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other things because I felt

00:16:00.259 --> 00:16:01.360 align:start line:85% position:10% size:63%
like I didn't deserve it.

00:16:01.427 --> 00:16:02.561 align:start line:85% position:10% size:43%
I didn't know how

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to operate anything.

00:16:04.330 --> 00:16:06.732 align:start line:85% position:10% size:53%
I was like Ferdinand.

00:16:06.799 --> 00:16:07.766 align:start line:85% position:10% size:65%
I would destroy everything

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around me on purpose.

00:16:09.768 --> 00:16:11.003 align:start line:85% position:10% size:53%
But it finally got to

00:16:11.070 --> 00:16:12.171 align:start line:85% position:10% size:58%
the point where I said,

00:16:12.237 --> 00:16:13.272 align:start line:85% position:10% size:23%
I'm done.

00:16:13.339 --> 00:16:14.273 align:start line:85% position:10% size:50%
I kept hearing about

00:16:14.340 --> 00:16:15.541 align:start line:85% position:10% size:58%
this thing, Mighty Oaks

00:16:15.607 --> 00:16:16.642 align:start line:85% position:10% size:33%
at that unit.

00:16:16.709 --> 00:16:18.010 align:start line:85% position:10% size:65%
I didn't want to take part

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in the events

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or the groups there.

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But this one, just something

00:16:21.847 --> 00:16:23.849 align:start line:85% position:10% size:45%
spoke to me in it.

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JAMES: Was there

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a Mighty Oaks close by?

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BRANDEN: The program was

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about four hours

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from Camp Pendleton.

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A church that I would

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end up going to later

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actually volunteered

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to drive a group of us up

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when we went.

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But I went with

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completely selfish reasons.

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I went to get away.

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I just wanted to get away.

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The place looked nice.

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They said you're going

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to go to a really nice place.

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You're going to get fed well

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and other things will happen.

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It is faith-based,

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and they kind of left

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a little bread crumbs for us

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but I went to just

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completely get away.

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JAMES: Okay. We've got

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just a few minutes left

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but what happened there?

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BRANDEN: Well, I didn't like

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what I was hearing at all.

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The truth hurts,

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especially when someone

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is poking you in the chest

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and asking those

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hard questions.

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When you don't have

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the ability to answer it

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properly where you can't

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answer when you became a man.

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What does a man look like?

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What does that mean?

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And then when you ask

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that question of the legacy

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that you're going to leave,

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is it going to be one

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worth leaving?

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We're going to leave one

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regardless of whether

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we want to or not, but

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if I was to box me up,

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hand it over to my kids

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or my wife or anybody

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that would take it,

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and wonder what they were

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going to do with it,

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I didn't like the response

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whether they kept it,

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chucked it.

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I was not leading my family.

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I wasn't leading my home.

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I was not in any way, shape,

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or form leaving

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an inheritance for

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my children's children.

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And for me to answer

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that question of my eternity

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and where I truly will

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end up, I didn't like

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the answer to that.

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So I submitted my life

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to Christ on a Wednesday night

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there and just dedicated

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everything.

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I think about Romans 10:14.

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"How will they know

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the truth that's out there

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if no one is preaching it?"

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So I kind of dedicate myself

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to that, and making sure

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that the same hope, healing,

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and restoration that

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I've been introduced,

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God remolding my heart,

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putting a new one in me,

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I can make that opportunity

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for other people.

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JEREMY: That's good.

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JAMES: And you were changed?

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BRANDEN: One hundred percent.

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JAMES: Could your wife tell?

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BRANDEN: My wife had

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no idea who Jesus was.

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She had never opened

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a Bible before that.

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So when I was telling her,

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okay, I'm doing this

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and all these other things,

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I thought she was going

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to be on board.

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I was clueless

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and pretty naive.

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What I didn't realize is that,

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as my wife would say,

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I was on this new road

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to righteousness because

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I had wiped my slate clean --

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not me but my slate

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was wiped clean,

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I was good.

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But what I forgot was

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all the destruction and mayhem

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that I had left in the past.

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So my wife felt left out.

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She felt like

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I was leaving her behind.

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She was used to me

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saying, "Sorry!

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I won't do it again."

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She was waiting for me

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to pick her up and

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slam her back down because

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I had said it before.

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I'm done drinking.

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I'm sorry, didn't mean

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to do this, that,

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and the other.

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I'd immediately go back to it

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because it was behavior

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changes and modifications

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but I didn't have

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a heart change.

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For me to feel that I was

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changed and actually feel

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-- I cried like a baby

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in front of a whole bunch

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of strangers at a place

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called Sky Rose Ranch

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in central California

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almost 11 years ago.

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It was the first time

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I had emotions.

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I just had this wave

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that I couldn't deny

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Christ working in me.

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JAMES: Thank you, God!

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And she saw it

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and she's changed?

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JEREMY: Yeah.

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Jeanette's story is that

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she accepted Christ

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through Mighty Oaks as well.

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And now, you've heard

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about our women's program,

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she is very, very involved

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with our women's program.

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Same thing, to Branden's

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testimony of preaching

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to others what Christ

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has done in her life.

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JAMES: This is the story

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of Mighty Oaks.

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Branden is one

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of the leaders.

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His wife is helping

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and a source of inspiration.

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We're asking you to help us

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put another man like this

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through the Mighty Oaks

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experience and be changed.

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It takes $3500,

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isn't that right,

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for a man to go through?

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You pay everything.

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You get their

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transportation there, home,

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take care of everything

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while they're there --

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period, men and women.

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Would you pay someone's way?

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We want to send

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30 men through;

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that's our goal this week.

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One week --

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that's $105,000.

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That's why we're doing

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all the other things

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we have to do.

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You don't want to take

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from a hungry child

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or somebody that needs

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clean water and

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do something different.

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This is something

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we're doing right now,

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this week.

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Could you help?

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Would you help, please?

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Would you say thank you

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to the armed service members

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and the first responders

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for their protection

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of our freedom and

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our future and our families?

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Would you please do that?

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Would you right now

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get your bank card

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or your checkbook,

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make the biggest gift you can

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and call and tell us

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it's going in the mail?

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Or I put it online,

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and put it on my card now.

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Please do it.

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Branden, we're so thankful

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to God for changing you.

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So thankful you're spending

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your life now helping

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the other service members.

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We want to thank you,

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Jeremy, for what you

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and your wife are doing,

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and what Mighty Oaks is doing.

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Let's be a part of it.

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Help us right now this week

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to perform a miracle.

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We're going to see

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30 men's lives changed.

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We're going to say thank you

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to a whole lot more

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than that by showing them

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how much we love them

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and appreciate them.

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You do what God

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is leading you to do.

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<i>We live in a country with</i>
<i>nearly 23 million veterans.</i>

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<i>Sadly, many of</i>
<i>those who have served</i>

00:22:26.478 --> 00:22:29.614 align:center line:58% position:50% size:68%
<i>come home carrying</i>
<i>the invisible scars of war.</i>

00:22:29.681 --> 00:22:31.917 align:start line:10% position:20% size:60%
<i>With 22 veteran suicides</i>
<i>each day,</i>

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<i>and so many</i>
<i>of our nation's heroes,</i>

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<i>including</i>
<i>first responders,</i>

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<i>suffering</i>
<i>post-traumatic stress,</i>

00:22:37.989 --> 00:22:39.925 align:center line:10% position:50% size:55%
<i>these men and women</i>
<i>often live in despair.</i>

00:22:39.991 --> 00:22:42.194 align:start line:58% position:23% size:53%
<i>But you can help make</i>
<i>a difference today</i>

00:22:42.260 --> 00:22:44.763 align:center line:58% position:50% size:60%
<i>and offer these warriors</i>
<i>a bright new future.</i>

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<i>LIFE Outreach International</i>
<i>is excited to honor</i>

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<i>our nation's</i>
<i>bravest men and women</i>

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<i>as we partner</i>
<i>to send 30 veterans</i>
<i>and first responders</i>

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<i>through the legacy program</i>
<i>offered by Mighty Oaks.</i>

00:22:55.774 --> 00:22:57.843 align:start line:10% position:15% size:68%
<i>Here these heroes</i>
<i>will be equipped with tools</i>

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<i>to fight through</i>
<i>life's challenges</i>

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<i>and uncover their</i>
<i>God-given purpose in life.</i>

00:23:02.481 --> 00:23:05.617 align:start line:10% position:28% size:45%
<i>At a cost of $3500</i>
<i>per participant,</i>

00:23:05.684 --> 00:23:10.255 align:center line:10% position:50% size:73%
<i>a total of $105,000 is needed</i>
<i>to make this possible.</i>

00:23:10.322 --> 00:23:13.358 align:start line:10% position:18% size:65%
<i>Please give what you can</i>
<i>as a way of providing hope</i>

00:23:13.425 --> 00:23:15.360 align:center line:10% position:50% size:50%
<i>and saying thank you</i>

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<i>to those at the core</i>
<i>of the freedoms we enjoy.</i>

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<i>Call, write, or make</i>
<i>your gift online.</i>

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JAMES: Well I'm thanking

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Jeremy, and I thank Branden.

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Of course, Suzanne

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for all that they're doing,

00:23:30.208 --> 00:23:31.510 align:start line:58% position:10% size:75%
all that Mighty Oaks is doing.

00:23:31.576 --> 00:23:32.711 align:start line:58% position:10% size:33%
Thank you for

00:23:32.778 --> 00:23:33.945 align:start line:58% position:10% size:43%
helping us today.

00:23:34.012 --> 00:23:35.113 align:start line:58% position:10% size:50%
Betty, this has been

00:23:35.180 --> 00:23:36.448 align:start line:58% position:10% size:60%
a real answer to prayer.

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Just thank God for

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the armed service members,

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for the first responders,

00:23:40.952 --> 00:23:42.287 align:start line:58% position:10% size:65%
and let them know how much

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they mean to you.

00:23:43.421 --> 00:23:44.523 align:start line:58% position:10% size:50%
Go over and buy them

00:23:44.589 --> 00:23:45.590 align:start line:58% position:10% size:55%
a meal sometime if you

00:23:45.657 --> 00:23:46.725 align:start line:58% position:10% size:63%
see them at a restaurant.

00:23:46.792 --> 00:23:47.826 align:start line:58% position:10% size:35%
Just tell them

00:23:47.893 --> 00:23:48.894 align:start line:58% position:10% size:35%
you love them.

00:23:48.960 --> 00:23:50.028 align:start line:58% position:10% size:65%
See somebody with a badge,

00:23:50.095 --> 00:23:51.163 align:start line:58% position:10% size:65%
thank them for wearing it.

00:23:51.229 --> 00:23:52.330 align:start line:58% position:10% size:35%
Thank them for

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standing up for freedom.

00:23:53.532 --> 00:23:54.633 align:start line:58% position:10% size:50%
I love you two guys.

00:23:54.699 --> 00:23:55.700 align:start line:58% position:10% size:30%
I really do.

00:23:55.767 --> 00:23:56.768 align:start line:58% position:10% size:43%
I'm proud of you.

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Y'all stay in touch with us.

00:23:58.069 --> 00:23:59.104 align:start line:58% position:10% size:58%
We're going to keep you

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informed of what's going on

00:24:00.238 --> 00:24:02.674 align:start line:58% position:10% size:70%
and what happened this week.

00:24:02.741 --> 00:24:03.942 align:start line:58% position:10% size:45%
I pray we go above

00:24:04.009 --> 00:24:04.943 align:start line:58% position:10% size:38%
and beyond what

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we're talking about.

00:24:06.211 --> 00:24:07.145 align:start line:58% position:10% size:35%
But you do all

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you can do to help.

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Betty and I thank you

00:24:10.215 --> 00:24:11.149 align:start line:58% position:10% size:55%
for putting God's arms

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around a lot of people.

00:24:12.984 --> 00:24:14.019 align:start line:58% position:10% size:48%
It means a lot that

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you're putting God's arms

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around the first responders

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and the armed service members.

00:24:19.424 --> 00:24:20.559 align:start line:58% position:10% size:53%
They are true heroes.

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They really are.

00:24:21.827 --> 00:24:23.495 align:start line:58% position:10% size:50%
To me, you're a hero

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by sharing his love

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and his will.

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Thank you so much.

00:24:39.110 --> 00:24:41.913 align:start line:10% position:15% size:68%
&gt;&gt; You're not dead until
you're no longer breathing,

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and yet there are a lot
of people who are breathing

00:24:44.082 --> 00:24:46.084 align:center line:10% position:50% size:45%
who are living
like they're dead.

00:24:46.151 --> 00:24:48.153 align:start line:10% position:28% size:45%
&gt;&gt; I started
listening to them.

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Everything they said
kept hitting me in the heart

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over and over and over again;
it is like all the things

00:24:52.357 --> 00:24:54.426 align:center line:10% position:38% size:55%
that I didn't know
that I needed to hear.

00:24:54.492 --> 00:24:57.896 align:start line:58% position:48% size:43%
I opened my heart
to God that week.

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I've been
a different person
ever since.

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I can't even describe
how quickly all that
emptiness that I had

00:25:03.368 --> 00:25:05.537 align:center line:58% position:50% size:40%
that I couldn't
fill with women,

00:25:05.604 --> 00:25:09.174 align:start line:58% position:28% size:60%
with drugs, with liquor,
with anything --

00:25:09.241 --> 00:25:11.176 align:end line:63% position:90% size:38%
[snaps fingers]

00:25:11.243 --> 00:25:13.245 align:center line:63% position:73% size:13%
Boom!

00:25:18.516 --> 00:25:22.921 align:start line:10% position:28% size:63%
&gt;&gt; I was immediately
greeted by a staff of men

00:25:22.988 --> 00:25:25.023 align:start line:10% position:28% size:50%
that knew what
I was going through,

00:25:25.090 --> 00:25:27.025 align:start line:10% position:30% size:53%
had been in my shoes.

00:25:27.092 --> 00:25:30.662 align:start line:10% position:23% size:68%
&gt;&gt; You could imagine a rope
with a thousand knots

00:25:30.729 --> 00:25:36.434 align:center line:10% position:50% size:68%
and little by little
each knot was being undone.

00:25:36.501 --> 00:25:39.070 align:start line:10% position:28% size:45%
&gt;&gt; Everything that
I was told here

00:25:39.137 --> 00:25:41.072 align:center line:10% position:50% size:55%
just made sense to me.

00:25:41.139 --> 00:25:44.276 align:start line:10% position:30% size:50%
It's given me like
a new lease on life.

00:25:44.342 --> 00:25:48.146 align:start line:10% position:33% size:35%
&gt;&gt; I thank God
for saving me.

00:25:48.213 --> 00:25:50.582 align:start line:10% position:25% size:48%
&gt;&gt; They're exposing
the pain

00:25:50.649 --> 00:25:53.985 align:start line:10% position:30% size:60%
for you to understand
where it is coming from.

00:25:54.052 --> 00:25:55.987 align:start line:10% position:30% size:40%
And for you
to move forward.

00:25:56.054 --> 00:25:57.989 align:start line:10% position:28% size:63%
&gt;&gt; This is the first week
in a long time

00:25:58.056 --> 00:26:03.128 align:center line:10% position:50% size:45%
where I've laughed
and I smiled.

00:26:03.194 --> 00:26:05.263 align:start line:10% position:28% size:43%
&gt;&gt; When I think
about my husband,

00:26:05.330 --> 00:26:08.099 align:start line:10% position:30% size:58%
I can't imagine the man
that he was before.

00:26:08.166 --> 00:26:11.436 align:start line:10% position:28% size:63%
And now,
he is the one that brings
the peace in our home.

00:26:11.503 --> 00:26:13.438 align:start line:10% position:30% size:38%
In the past two
to three years,

00:26:13.505 --> 00:26:16.908 align:start line:10% position:30% size:48%
we've been through
some of the hardest
things personally

00:26:16.975 --> 00:26:19.477 align:start line:10% position:30% size:60%
as parents
and just a lot of trials

00:26:19.544 --> 00:26:21.479 align:start line:10% position:30% size:38%
that we've ever
been through,

00:26:21.546 --> 00:26:23.481 align:start line:10% position:28% size:60%
and I know it would have
wrecked our marriage

00:26:23.548 --> 00:26:25.784 align:start line:10% position:28% size:43%
if we didn't
have Mighty Oaks.

00:26:28.186 --> 00:26:30.655 align:end line:10% position:90% size:20%
[Cheers]

00:26:35.060 --> 00:26:37.295 align:start line:10% position:33% size:35%
&gt;&gt; I know
I needed help.

00:26:37.362 --> 00:26:39.531 align:center line:10% position:50% size:55%
I felt like I was
at the end of my rope.

00:26:39.597 --> 00:26:43.134 align:start line:10% position:18% size:63%
I come here to
this Mighty Oaks program,

00:26:43.201 --> 00:26:45.837 align:center line:10% position:50% size:28%
it has been
so good!

00:26:47.605 --> 00:26:50.575 align:start line:58% position:15% size:68%
<i>For over 60 years,</i>
LIFE Outreach International

00:26:50.642 --> 00:26:53.178 align:center line:58% position:50% size:68%
<i>has shared the transforming</i>
<i>truth of God's love</i>

00:26:53.244 --> 00:26:55.180 align:center line:58% position:50% size:30%
<i>in both word</i>
<i>and deed.</i>

00:26:55.246 --> 00:26:57.649 align:start line:58% position:13% size:73%
We are forever grateful
to everyone who has joined us

00:26:57.716 --> 00:26:59.985 align:center line:53% position:50% size:45%
in our mission
of providing water
to the thirsty,

00:27:00.051 --> 00:27:03.221 align:center line:58% position:50% size:55%
food to the hungry,
shelter to the orphan,

00:27:03.288 --> 00:27:05.857 align:center line:58% position:50% size:73%
and meeting the various needs
of those who are struggling.

00:27:05.924 --> 00:27:07.859 align:start line:58% position:25% size:50%
<i>Our ministry to</i>
<i>the lost and hurting</i>

00:27:07.926 --> 00:27:09.961 align:center line:58% position:50% size:55%
<i>is only made possible</i>
<i>because of the prayers</i>

00:27:10.028 --> 00:27:12.464 align:center line:58% position:50% size:68%
<i>and generous gifts</i>
<i>of our friends and partners</i>

00:27:12.530 --> 00:27:15.000 align:center line:58% position:50% size:58%
<i>who provide consistent,</i>
<i>faithful support.</i>

00:27:15.066 --> 00:27:17.002 align:start line:58% position:30% size:40%
Become a Friend
for Life partner

00:27:17.068 --> 00:27:19.004 align:center line:58% position:50% size:48%
with your recurring
financial gifts.

00:27:19.070 --> 00:27:21.006 align:start line:58% position:20% size:58%
We'll send you
our monthly newsletter,

00:27:21.072 --> 00:27:23.008 align:center line:58% position:50% size:55%
along with encouraging
spiritual resources

00:27:23.074 --> 00:27:26.177 align:center line:58% position:50% size:73%
to uplift and inspire you
in your daily Christian walk.

00:27:26.244 --> 00:27:28.179 align:start line:58% position:15% size:68%
Best of all,
you will be blessed to know

00:27:28.246 --> 00:27:30.615 align:center line:58% position:50% size:60%
that your ongoing gift
is helping make possible

00:27:30.682 --> 00:27:32.617 align:center line:58% position:50% size:35%
the outreaches
of LIFE.

00:27:32.684 --> 00:27:35.887 align:start line:58% position:15% size:70%
<i>Call now or go online</i>
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00:27:35.954 --> 00:27:37.889 align:start line:58% position:23% size:53%
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<i>will help us continue</i>

00:27:37.956 --> 00:27:40.058 align:center line:58% position:50% size:50%
<i>to bring God's love,</i>
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00:27:40.125 --> 00:27:43.895 align:center line:58% position:50% size:48%
<i>to a world in need</i>
<i>one life at a time.</i>

00:27:43.962 --> 00:27:46.765 align:start line:63% position:30% size:40%
Please call now!

00:27:46.831 --> 00:27:48.767 align:start line:10% position:30% size:38%
<i>Stay connected</i>
<i>with LIFE Today</i>

00:27:48.833 --> 00:27:50.769 align:center line:10% position:50% size:53%
<i>through your favorite</i>
<i>social media.</i>

00:27:50.835 --> 00:27:52.771 align:start line:10% position:20% size:58%
<i>Get access to exclusive</i>
<i>content and news</i>

00:27:52.837 --> 00:27:54.606 align:center line:10% position:50% size:58%
<i>from all of</i>
<i>the outreaches of LIFE!</i>

00:27:54.672 --> 00:27:56.841 align:start line:10% position:33% size:33%
<i>Subscribe,</i>
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00:27:56.908 --> 00:28:00.378 align:center line:10% position:50% size:60%
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<i>social media experience!</i>

00:28:02.313 --> 00:28:04.215 align:start line:10% position:20% size:58%
&gt;&gt; And there were times
that I thought

00:28:04.282 --> 00:28:05.650 align:center line:10% position:50% size:45%
he's going to take
his own life.

00:28:05.717 --> 00:28:08.787 align:start line:63% position:15% size:68%
<i>After struggling with PTSD,</i>
<i>this former Marine</i>

00:28:08.853 --> 00:28:11.623 align:center line:63% position:50% size:68%
<i>is now helping other heroes</i>
<i>dealing with trauma.</i>

00:28:12.624 --> 00:28:16.061 align:start line:10% position:13% size:73%
<i>LIFE Today is made</i>
<i>possible by the supporters of</i>
<i>LIFE Outreach International.</i>

00:28:16.127 --> 00:28:19.164 align:center line:10% position:50% size:70%
<i>Your gift will be</i>
<i>used exclusively for</i>
<i>the exempt purposes of LIFE.</i>

00:28:19.230 --> 00:28:21.232 align:start line:10% position:23% size:53%
<i>The ministry features</i>
<i>specific outreaches</i>

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<i>as examples of the programs</i>
<i>it supports and conducts.</i>

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<i>Gifts are considered</i>
<i>to be without restriction</i>

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<i>as to use unless explicitly</i>
<i>stipulated by the donor.</i>

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<i>The ministry is a member</i>
<i>of the ECFA.</i>


